Our journey of trying to conceive has been 9 years long and its still going strong, with a number of IUI’s, potential IVF twice (long story) and then excepting life as it is. And then after three years, we are actually down that road again. The urge for a baby was gone, we traveled, had fun, did things, experienced life and was actually happy and did actually think we can live like this but why do i find ourselves going back to the Clinic again and long lists of tests again. Whyyyyy?????